Yes,life will change.All your friends ,the group will not be together.Forever would become a delusionary word,one of those hollow words which loses its significance when reality befalls.Life will never be the same.Love and relationships is what will seem the hottest topic to be discussed around the corner.Marriage would be the word you would dread off and want too.If all this is true you definitely are about to be 25 and more to follow.You would wish that the time should become still and you can live forever the life you have been living.Long STD phone calls and memoirs of the past is what you will be left with.You would frequently receive news from friends getting engaged or married and every conversation with any age group will end up in asking you the most dreaded question:So when are you getting married?As if it’s the latest fashion trend and you are left out and don’t have any idea about it.People will lecture you on being more responsible and you are left wondering haven’t living alone far from home since so many years proves that I am responsible and independent and can take good care of myself.If you can relate to all this then welcome to the elite group of adult and responsible people,yess you are no longer a kid though you still love to do kiddish things at many a times.
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I remember when we were small playing a game of cricket with my cousin brothers . We were the mini - Sehwags of our locality and used to hit out the balls out of our compound more often than not and thereby losing it in the process .
Useless Trivia : I once hit a unbeaten 238(not out) in a match against my brother which happens to be the unbeaten record at my compound .
What followed next was the most dreaded period when we used to gingerly go up to some of our elders for requesting funds for our next ball . More often than not we will be lectured for the next 20 mins about how we should be careful and should not lose money . At that precise moment I used to envy the senior counterparts who have money to spare . I used to think when I have the money I will be spending it all on rubber balls , truck loads of Gems and innumerable comics . And the time came when I had my first stipend in my hand , I precisely remembered this moment . I then realized that each stage of life needs to be enjoyed as is . If we think too much we lose out on the special part of that particular stage of your life .
Often most of us wandered that why is childhood is the most desired period of the life once it has passed . For the simple reason that you were at your carefree best . Yes responsibilities have their place and must be taken up whenever they are expected from you . But at the end of the day you need to be a child at heart . I still regret missing out on my childhood by resenting the "privileges" elders have . I still regret missing out on my adolescent fun by dabbing in love when I should have been dabbing in more fun things . What I do not want to regret now is to miss out on enjoying the rest of my carefree days with complete abandon (with proper smatterings of responsibilities) .
As a well wisher for you I would advise the same for you . People will say a lot of things . Its up to you to filter those talks . Just want to conclude with these immortal lines from a T.V. show called F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
Joey: Go for it man! Jump off the high dive. Stare down the barrel of a gun, pee into the wind!
Chandler: I assure you, if I'm staring down the barrel of a gun, I'm pretty much peeing every which way!!!
P.S. :Have a nice weekend :)
P.P.S. : Although I do not guarantee it .. But I am planning to put my thoughts in a proper blog and all . Of course behind a veil ;)
P.P.P.S. : The blog name would be under that name I have posted in i.e. A Nony Mouse
P.P.P.P.S. : I have a left an innocuous hint about myself ... Let's see if your keen eye can spot that :)
Thanks A nony mouse for sharing ur life experiences.Its a delight to know u... :)I agree tht every period of life is to be enjoyed as it is but the thing is we don't hv tht awareness at tht moment..later only we do realise wat we missed while fretting over non trivial issues... :)U knw wat in the end u hv written P.S.,P.P.S., P.P.P.S....Man thts exactly how I write daily email to one of my really sweet friend...and get the reply in same manner...I jst thought its the same friend and I was like tell me,its u its u its u...Coz its been more than month and tht is precisely how we end each of our email!!!! Nobody else knws...U read my ming eh?Bt there's one diff only the last PS note has a song...It has to be a song :D And tht friend was amazed on the similarity...I googled for a blog named A Nony Mouse but no help...Need to hire James Bond :P he he he...Anyways I hv given up the search now..And I won't search for u anymore..Coz u r here and u cn only provide me the best answers for urself :)
I am sorry to say but I am not the person you have mentioned here . But its good to unintentionally throw you off scent . The clue about me is still out there in my message for you to see . You definitely do not need Google to search for me in your blog , do you ?
As for my blog , I am going to blog on http://anonymoouse.blogspot.com/ as http://anonymouse.blogspot.com/ was taken . Will let you know if I am going to post anything.
Hey thank you for sharing your blog address :)You need not update me coz I will be following you :) ;) And I still can't find the clue u dropped,guess I m dumb enough :| he he he...Looking forward for your first post :)
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