Love …An incomprehensible feeling that takes over your mind,body and soul and changes you in a manner that you are never the same.Sab chemical locha hai bhai…Hormonal discrepancy,at a certain age your hormones go mad and decide to play a trick with your whole system inside and out to give you a glimpse of afterlife (heaven and hell here right on earth!!!).And slowly and steadily after a certain age they calm down come back to normal,jawani ka josh,sab thanda and you realise what life is and what truly love is.You may have felt that the other person is the only thing you would ever want in your whole life and if you are together then the whole world is yours.But time teaches you the lesson.that you can fall in love anywhere,anytime or should I say any number of times… :D Whenever it does happens it messes up badly with your whole being.Raaton ki neend,din ka chaen,yess those sleepless nights !!! Your perspective towards everything and everyone.Everything just changes.But still you enjoy being devastated like this.Yess,that’s what love is chemical lafda.If you are suffering from any of these symptoms i.e. lost in thoughts of someone anywhere and anytime ,sleepless nights,a sudden liking towards romantic movies and songs,becoming compassionate even towards your enemies..Then certainly the chemical wiring of your body has had a short circuit somewhere and it needs repairing before you get a big shock.
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One of the worst feelings we have is that of love at first sight . It happens the most of us . Even if the fire is lit on the both sides , we allow us to be consumed by the same flames and there ensues a completely frivolous , passionate and stormy affair . Those are the times we display often extreme emotions. If all is well then we behave exceptionally well . One tiff with the person you love and God help those who try to have a conversation with us. True love could only be realized when we could overcome the early periods of these blissful moments and still have the same love for them.
You reminded me of these lines I read somewhere long back and have preserved since then :
“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. No, don't blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Even if u love truely then too cheaters can plunder your truthness.
To be eloquent is not one of my forte . What I have tried to write is what I have truly felt during those disastrous moments . Yes I have read many insightful things that deal with the "concept" of love but only your heart and mind knows that true language of love . What's even more weird that even if they are vital parts of your own body they never reveal that language .They never even warns us of the impending doom. As if they derive some sadomasochistic pleasure from the heartbreak that ensues after a relationship. Only in those moments you do understand how futile and laborious your efforts are in realizing love.
Exactly!!! And u say u ain't eloquent???U just expressed all the feelings in few lines...tht too in the most amazing way :)
@Author That's you being generous towards me . You are far more eloquent than me . If both of us would be in a class you will be definitely be a 9 pointer and often sitting in the first three benches , whereas I will be the one of the 6 pointers in back benches where I would be snoozing completely oblivious to what is being taught in the class
U r very stubborn...ain't u?So u won't accept.Bt I m always ready to accept praise let it come in any form..he he he :D Indeed I always used 2 sit on first 3 benches and maintained a cgpa of 9 point something :P ;)Bt I believe u r one of those who would sleep at first bench and yet score 9 :P
Well you are both right and wrong . Yes , for one of my lectures I managed to sleep in the first bench . CGPA = 9 is something that has not graced my grade sheet for eons . Not that I am apologetic about it.
Anyways the discussion is wildly veering from the topic , don't you think so ?
Yup you are right...Bt can't stop blabbering good things abt me :):P ;) Bt I ws interested to read u more coz I realised that there is lot to learn from you.And I like learning and improving :)
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